Iain Wilson

Iain Wilson

He/Him

Registered Clinical Counsellor

⬤ Victoria, BC & Online
⬤ Not Currently Accepting New Clients

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My Practice as a Therapist

I think an important first step is meeting people where they are and getting to know how we can best work together. As such, my first focus will be getting to know you and developing the ever-important counselling relationship. I want you to feel comfortable and safe.

I believe in the importance of language and how we use language to both shape and reflect our lives. By approaching with curiosity, we can deepen our stories and begin to create change.

That exploration can also help to provide context to behaviours and emotions. Everything makes sense in context.

My Areas of Support:

• Desire Discrepancy

• Ejaculation Concerns

• Erectile Difficulties

• Performance Anxiety

• Relationship Counselling

My Approaches in Therapy:

• Emotionally Focused Therapy

• Somatic

• Person-Centred

• Trauma-Informed

• Mindfulness

• Feminist

• Narrative

• Gottman Couples Therapy

• Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)

My Therapy Style:

• Gentle & Supportive

• Direct & Transparent

• Curious & Explorative

• My Professional Trainings & Experience

  • Developmental Model for Couples Therapy, Sue Diamond

  • Allura Sex Therapy Centre 8-month Intern Counselling & Sex Therapy Training Program, Allura Sex Therapy Centre

  • The Sexually Competent Therapist: Integrating Sex Therapy Into Your Practice, *Diana Sadat via Allura Sex Therapy Centre

  • Integrating Sex & Couples Therapy: Common Issues in Couples & Relational Sex Therapy, Diana Sadat via Allura Sex Therapy Centre

  • Attachment Theory in Practice, ICEEFT

  • Foundations I: 5 Day Foundations of Narrative Therapy, Vancouver School for Narrative Therapy

  • When Sex Hurts: Understanding and Addressing Sexual & Pelvic Pain Concerns in Therapy, Diana Sadat via Allura Sex Therapy Centre

  • Gottman Level 1 Couples Training: Bridging the Couples Chiasm, The Gottman Institute

• What You Can Expect When Working With Me

  I will work with you in a collaborative, nonjudgmental way. Feminism is a part of my personal belief system that influences me as a person as well as the way I approach the counselling relationship. I believe in creating a sex positive environment. I think sex is such a large part of many humans experiences, yet there is often a kind of mysticism surrounding sex and lack of healthy communication about it.

• Why Sex Therapy?

  I was drawn to this field because I think that by deconstructing a lot of the unhealthy social sexual messaging, we can begin to change how we see ourselves and how we understand sex.

• My Clients Have Described Me As...

  • Calm

  • Gentle

  • Supportive

  • Humorous

• My Favourite Quote

  "Behind every criticism is a veiled wish."

  — Esther Perel

• What I Do When I'm Not In The Office

  I enjoy traveling, hiking, cooking, sports, and using humour to connect.

• Extended Health Coverage

  Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)

Session Fees

Individual Counselling Session

50 Minutes
$190

Individual Counselling Session

80 Minutes
$285

Relationship Counselling Session

50 Minutes
$210

Relationship Counselling Session

80 Minutes
$315

Session fees may be paid by Credit Card, E-transfer, Cash (exact change only), or Cheque (Cash & Cheque available for in-person sessions only).

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